io_uring/rsrc: improve regbuf iov validation

Deduplicate io_buffer_validate() calls by moving the checks into
io_sqe_buffer_register(). Now we also don't need special handling in
io_buffer_validate() passing through buffer removal requests. I also
was using it as a cleanup before some other changes.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>