xfs: rename XFS_REFC_COW_START to _COWFLAG

Source kernel commit: 8b972158afcaa66c538c3ee1d394f096fcd238a8

We've been (ab)using XFS_REFC_COW_START as both an integer quantity and
a bit flag, even though it's *only* a bit flag.  Rename the variable to
reflect its nature and update the cast target since we're not supposed
to be comparing it to xfs_agblock_t now.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>