cxl/region: Introduce CLASS(cxl_decoder_detach...) consolidate multiple paths

Both detach_target() and cxld_unregister() want to tear down a cxl_region
when an endpoint decoder is either detached or destroyed.

When a region is to be destroyed cxl_decoder_detach() releases
cxl_region_rwsem unbinds the cxl_region driver and re-acquires the rwsem.

This "reverse" locking pattern is difficult to reason about, not amenable
to scope-based cleanup, and the minor differences in the calling convention
of cxl_decoder_detach() currently results in the cxl_decoder_kill_region()
wrapper.

Introduce CLASS(cxl_decoder_detach...) which creates an object that moves
the post-detach cleanup work to a destructor, and consolidates minor
preamble differences in the constructor.

Cc: Davidlohr Bueso <dave@stgolabs.net>
Cc: Jonathan Cameron <jonathan.cameron@huawei.com>
Cc: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Cc: Alison Schofield <alison.schofield@intel.com>
Cc: Vishal Verma <vishal.l.verma@intel.com>
Cc: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>