meson: Fix build of padsp

 - Rename "pulsedspdir" to the same "padsplibdir" that Autotools uses.

 - Add a new option "pulsedsp-location" that is only used for padsp.in,
   just like Autotools' --with-pulsedsp-location.

 - Use 'set' instead of 'set_quoted' to avoid PULSEDSP_LOCATION getting
   quoted twice.
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