5.3 Merge window RDMA pull request

A smaller cycle this time. Notably we see another new driver, 'Soft
iWarp', and the deletion of an ancient unused driver for nes.

- Revise and simplify the signature offload RDMA MR APIs

- More progress on hoisting object allocation boiler plate code out of the
  drivers

- Driver bug fixes and revisions for hns, hfi1, efa, cxgb4, qib, i40iw

- Tree wide cleanups: struct_size, put_user_page, xarray, rst doc conversion

- Removal of obsolete ib_ucm chardev and nes driver

- netlink based discovery of chardevs and autoloading of the modules
  providing them

- Move more of the rdamvt/hfi1 uapi to include/uapi/rdma

- New driver 'siw' for software based iWarp running on top of netdev,
  much like rxe's software RoCE.

- mlx5 feature to report events in their raw devx format to userspace

- Expose per-object counters through rdma tool

- Adaptive interrupt moderation for RDMA (DIM), sharing the DIM core
  from netdev
Merge branch 'linus/master' into rdma for-next

Resolve merge conflicts:
 - Use in_dev_for_each_ifa_rtnl instead of for_ifa
 - Remove nes.c
 - Use the netdev version of the eswitch_offloads.c hunk

Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>