mptcp: pm: ADD_ADDR rtx: skip inactive subflows

When looking at the maximum RTO amongst the subflows, inactive subflows
were taken into account: that includes stale ones, and the initial one
if it has been already been closed.

Unusable subflows are now simply skipped. Stale ones are used as an
alternative: if there are only stale ones, to take their maximum RTO and
avoid to eventually fallback to net.mptcp.add_addr_timeout, which is set
to 2 minutes by default.

Fixes: 30549eebc4d8 ("mptcp: make ADD_ADDR retransmission timeout adaptive")
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Reviewed-by: Mat Martineau <martineau@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Matthieu Baerts (NGI0) <matttbe@kernel.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260505-net-mptcp-pm-fixes-7-1-rc3-v1-7-fca8091060a4@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>