fbnic: convert to ndo_set_rx_mode_async

Convert fbnic from ndo_set_rx_mode to ndo_set_rx_mode_async. The
driver's __fbnic_set_rx_mode() now takes explicit uc/mc list
parameters and uses __hw_addr_sync_dev() on the snapshots instead
of __dev_uc_sync/__dev_mc_sync on the netdev directly.

Update callers in fbnic_up, fbnic_fw_config_after_crash,
fbnic_bmc_rpc_check and fbnic_set_mac to pass the real address
lists calling __fbnic_set_rx_mode outside the async work path.

Cc: Alexander Duyck <alexanderduyck@fb.com>
Cc: kernel-team@meta.com
Reviewed-by: Aleksandr Loktionov <aleksandr.loktionov@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@fomichev.me>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260416185712.2155425-6-sdf@fomichev.me
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>