md: rename __mddev_suspend/resume() back to mddev_suspend/resume()

Now that the old apis are removed, __mddev_suspend/resume() can be
renamed to their original names.

This is done by:

sed -i "s/__mddev_suspend/mddev_suspend/g" *.[ch]
sed -i "s/__mddev_resume/mddev_resume/g" *.[ch]

Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230828020021.2489641-29-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com