sched_ext: Rename balance-era identifiers to dispatch terms

sched_class->balance() is gone from sched_ext and what balance_one() does is
run dispatch to produce something pickable. Update the balance-era names to
dispatch terms:

- balance_one() -> dispatch_one()
- SCX_RQ_IN_BALANCE -> SCX_RQ_IN_DISPATCH

No BPF scheduler reads the flag. The enum autogen headers gain the new name
with the old entry retained like other removed enumerators, zero-filling at
load time. No functional changes.

Signed-off-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>