sched_ext: Skip past-sched_ext_dead() tasks in scx_task_iter_next_locked()

scx_task_iter's cgroup-scoped mode can return tasks whose
sched_ext_dead() has already completed: cgroup_task_dead() removes
from cset->tasks after sched_ext_dead() in finish_task_switch() and is
irq-work deferred on PREEMPT_RT. The global mode is fine -
sched_ext_dead() removes from scx_tasks via list_del_init() first.

Callers (sub-sched enable prep/abort/apply, scx_sub_disable(),
scx_fail_parent()) assume returned tasks are still on @sch and trip
WARN_ON_ONCE() or operate on torn-down state otherwise.

Set %SCX_TASK_OFF_TASKS in sched_ext_dead() under @p's rq lock and
have scx_task_iter_next_locked() skip flagged tasks under the same
lock. Setter and reader serialize on the per-task rq lock - no race.

Signed-off-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>