workqueue: Add warnings and ensure one among WQ_PERCPU or WQ_UNBOUND is present

Currently there are no checks in order to enforce the use of one between
WQ_PERCPU or WQ_UNBOUND.

So act as following:
- if neither of them is present, set WQ_PERCPU
- if both are present, remove WQ_PERCPU

Along with this change, WARN_ONCE(), so that the code still uses both or
neither of them, can be changed.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/all/20250221112003.1dSuoGyc@linutronix.de/
Suggested-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Marco Crivellari <marco.crivellari@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>